Your marriage is the most important thing you'll ever build.
Nobody drifts on purpose.
It happens in the small moments. A bid for connection that goes unanswered. A conversation that becomes logistics. A "we're fine" that quietly stops being true.
Most couples wait until something breaks to pay attention to their marriage. We think that's backward. The strongest relationships aren't the ones that never hit trouble — they're the ones that get cared for before trouble starts.
That's the whole idea behind everything we do.
Between us, we've spent nearly three decades in the world of love and relationships as a certified matchmaker, a couples coach, a keynote speaker, and a wedding officiant. We’ve worked with more couples than we can count.
But the real reason people trust us is simpler: we're a couple teaching what we actually live. Not theory from a clinic. A method from our real marriage.
We call it The LoveByLee Method ~ a practical, warm, jargon-free way to build a relationship that lasts.
We’re a real married couple & relationship experts
Mike Lee
Mike is a couples coach, wedding officiant, certified matchmaker & Gottman Institute 7 Principles of Making Marriage Work leader. Mike is a proud graduate of Hampton University with a degree in psychology. He is a lifetime member of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Incorporated.
Amber Lee
Amber Lee has been a relationship expert since 1998. She is a certified matchmaker, certified strategic intervention coach, and Gottman Institute 7 Principles of Making Marriage Work leader. Amber is a graduate of Liberty University with a degree in business administration.