The Marriage Audit

Ten questions. Six minutes. Answer separately — then compare. HOW TO USE THIS

1. Each of you answers all ten questions on your own. No discussing, no peeking. Honesty beats diplomacy here.

2. Score 1 to 5. One means never, five means always. Go with your gut — your first answer is usually the true one.

3. Then sit down together and compare. Use the Gap Finder.